Abnormal Personality Types, Parenting and Other Issues

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• The Apple Tree Abnormal Personality
  They are the "perennial runner-up", the one voted most likely to succeed — and then doesn't. Meanwhile, they haunt the dating services and they are a member in good standing of the "lonely hearts club". They seem to have some sort of compulsion to never succeed at any thing. They forever fail to live up to their potential — one of the Gary Harts and Jerry Browns of the world. They are person who is "living under their Apple Tree" . . .
  
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• The Baby Bird Abnormal Personality
  Have you ever seen a mother bird feeding her young? There they are, mouths wide open, pushing, shoving and shrillingly demanding whatever morsel is in mom's mouth at the moment, with not the slightest regard for anyone or anything else. This is the perfect picture of the 'baby bird' in action.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/baby-bird-personality.htm
• The Black Sheep Abnormal Personality
  Remember the story of "Jack and the Beanstalk?" Or, more to the point, remember the giant? The giant was a "black sheep". And "FEE, FI, FO, FUM!" is the "mantra" of the "black sheep". This is the "perpetual bully" who becomes a "professional asshole". They are a "careening cannon" who "blows away" whoever and whatever is in their path. They never stop assaulting the environment, and they coerce, clobber and control their way to whatever they want, like a 500-pound gorilla.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/black-sheep-personality.htm
• The Center Stage Abnormal Personality
  Remember 'Gerald McBoing-Boing'? He was the cartoon kid who riveted everyone's total attention with his ability to make virtually any sound out of his mouth, including things like car wrecks, train whistles and tap dancing. Well, the 'center stage' has the same kind of effect on people. They are absolute past masters of gaining and maintaining attention ad infinitum by being incredibly colorful, exciting, entertaining and delightful - or by being loud, invasive, entraining and demanding.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/center-stage-personality.htm
• The Church Mouse Abnormal Personality
  There was once a sweet young thing who projected the image of the innocent and struggling, quiet, brilliant and pleasant person. However, in reality, she was an "eye of a storm" everywhere she went. Things continuously happened around her that were often nightmarishly terrible. Yet she always seemed to be warm, insightful and integritous, with absolutely no connection to what was happening around her.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/church-mouse-personality.htm
• The Claim to Fame Abnormal Personality
  Remember the old 'Bobo the Clown' inflatable punching bag with the big red nose that squeaked when you hit it, and that had something heavy in the bottom so it always came back up for more? Now imagine that clown with a slow leak, so that there has to be a continuous re-inflation process going on to keep it up. If you do, you have some idea of how the 'Claim to Fame' (CF) operates. They are the 'perennial adolescent' who are 'one note' status-freaks whose chant is, 'Wait till they hear about THIS! always trying to prove their right exist by making a big impression.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/claim-to-fame-personality.htm
• The Desperado Abnormal Personality
  Did you know that there is a new phenomenon in Japan called 'karoshi'? It is a case of working yourself to death - literally, as they are found dead at their desk the office in morning. It is becoming quite common over there. And reflects a pattern that is becoming pandemic our times - workaholic/servaholic who can't be intimate or allow love into their life.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/desperado-personality.htm
• The Dopey Abnormal Personality
  Do you remember 'Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs', the cartoon? And the sweet, simple and stupid-seeming dwarf? His name was 'Dopey'. He was chosen as the metaphor/title for this script because it fits so well. For those who have been programmed in this manner by whatever means are very much like the lovable little dwarf - innocent, down-to-earth and easily overwhelmed, so that they need a 'prosthetic environment' to function, ranging from individualized instruction to 'crib-sheets' to special routines to specialized equipment to support system intimates to full-fledged institutionalization.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/dopey-personality.htm
• The Egghead Abnormal Personality
  Meet the "walking cerebrum", the brain on stilts. They are the epitome of logic, rationality, and left hemisphere analysis. To them everything has its place and everything is in its correct place -- at least in their conception of the world. They have the ANSWER, whether it takes the form of an ideology, a theory, or a method of analysis and inquiry. And God help anyone who either seeks to introduce anything different or tries to prove them wrong!!!
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/egghead-personality.htm
• The Family Dog Abnormal Personality
  Remember the bizarre butler in 'The Rocky Horror Picture Show?'. He was hunchbacked and extremely weird - clearly he would never have been able to make it in the world, though he had a central role in his master's castle. He was a perfect example of a 'family dog', the crushed incompetent who is totally trained to be the family's support system - or to be up in the garret or in the basement, like they used to do in earlier times.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/family-dog-personality.htm
• The Family Emblem Abnormal Personality
  What do Jimmy Carter and Carol Burnett have in common? Answer: they are both "family emblems". This is the "superstar" pattern, where the individual consistently puts out at much more than the average bear's capacity. They are spectacularly successful in most areas of life, and they rise to the top of whatever endeavor field they engage. But paradoxically, they come from a highly dysfunctional family in which virtually everyone else in the family spends their life groveling around in the shit of the family system and its effects on their lives. You wonder how in the world this individual could have come from that family.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/family-emblem-personality.htm
• The Fog Bound Abnormal Personality
  Remember that guy in the trench coat who always looked like he was lost in space somehow, but who always was in exquisite control of everything? "Columbo", his name was, I believe. He had a way of looking somehow befuddled all the time, and yet he had a video camera's eye and memory for virtually every detail of everything he encountered. Trivial or important, it didn't matter — he knew it all equally well.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/fog-bound-personality.htm
• The Goodie-Getter Abnormal Personality
  Remember John Belucci? It was found by autopsy that he was already dead in five major organs - he was a walking corpse who would have died of 'natural causes' within the next two weeks anyway. He had managed to dissipate himself to death by the age of 33. He was a fine example of a 'goodie-getter'.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/goodie-getter-personality.htm
• The Goodie-Two-Shoes Abnormal Personality
  Meet 'Barbie and Ken' - 'Daddy's little girl' and 'Mommy's little man'. These are the 'goodie-two-shoes' (goodie-two-shoes) parent-pleasing puppet whose heart belongs to Daddy or Mommy. They are the sexually saturated 'chosen one' who is kept exclusively tied to the engulfing parent via the 'phantom Papa' or the 'ghostly Mama' in their head for the rest of their life. They are a highly specialized reward machine for the 'choosing' parent. They literally can't live an independent life because the 'Lilliput-tie-downs' were so effective. They are like the odd half of a pair of scissors for which the other half will never come through or show up. They end up living a 'movie' instead of a destiny.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/goodie-two-shoes-personality.htm
• The Hobby Horse Abnormal Personality
  Meet "Admiral Perry", who is the one who said in the heat of battle, "Damn the torpedoes! FULL SPEED AHEAD!". These are the "cause-aholics" of the world, the ones who have THE ANSWER, and who intend to see to it that everyone conforms to the solution requirements. They are true believers who put all their eggs in one basket, and after becoming their own worst taskmaster, they try to ram their trip down everyone else's throat. Now this can range from the damned foolish to the damned effective, like Joan Baez and Jane Fonda, Robert Redford and Dustin Hoffman. But the pattern is the same — trying to save the world with their "magic" formula.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/hobby-horse-personality.htm
• The Injustice Hound Abnormal Personality
  Don Quixote delusionally misperceiving a windmill as a villainous adversary and charging it, only to get picked up by his petard, taken to the top of the windmill's swing, and then dropped on his head. If you've got that image, you've got the injustice house in action.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/injustice-hound-personality.htm
• The Jewelled American Princess Abnormal Personality
  You see that pile of mattresses over there? Guess who was there! That's right, the 'Princess and the Pea'. She was a classic example of the 'Jeweled American Prince(ss)'. This is an individual who feels 'special' and who expects 'royal' treatment. They are narcissistically haughty, perfectionistically picky, and imperiously exploitative.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/jewelled-american-princess-personality.htm
• The Keystone Kid Abnormal Personality
  Remember the figure of "Atlas" holding up the world? When "Atlas shrugs", the whole world comes tumbling down. This is the situation the "keystone kid" experiences. They feel totally responsible for the care and maintenance of whoever and whatever they are in contact with, and their experience is that if they don't cover all the bases, all hell will break loose and it's all their fault. Of course, the whole situation is their sole responsibility, and there is no such thing as a little help from their friends.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/keystone-kid-personality.htm
• The Lone Marauder Abnormal Personality
  Meet Bonnie and Clyde, the "lone marauders". These are the "criminal personalities" of the world. They juggernaught their way through life with the basic orientation of, "I gotta right — and you'd better back off!". They operate like "travelling tornadoes", tearing up the environment everywhere they go, and leaving a trail of tragedy behind them. They are amoral total takers whose motto is, "If I can get away with it, why not?". "Besides, those assholes got it coming to them after all they did to me and mine!". They operate like a lawless version of the "Tasmanian devil" cartoon character, buzz-saw-eating their way through everything they encounter.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/lone-marauder-personality.htm
• The Model Child Abnormal Personality
  When you think of the traditional oriental person, particularly the female, you have a good idea of who the "model child" is. They are extremely inhibited, retiring, self-effacing and eager to please, but you might as well piss in the wind rather than to try to get them to share themselves or to express a preference. They are the "quiet ones", the ones who silently labor their way to accomplishments in the background.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/model-child-personality.htm
• The Mom Addict Abnormal Personality
  Picture, if you will, the scene of a Nazi concentration camp where a child is yanked from the arms of his/her mother and is carried off screaming while the even more distraught mother is held back by guards. This is the intensity of passion and reaction to separation that exists in the 'mom-addict'.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/mom-addict-personality.htm
• The Peck's Bad Boy/Girl Abnormal Personality
  Have ever known someone who somehow always ended up on the shitty end of the stick, no matter what? If so, you have known a 'Peck's Bad Boy/Girl' ('PBB/G'). They live a misery-seeking life-style of slowly self-destructive dissipation and pseudo-joy ride self-distraction on the way down the shit-chute to oblivion. They spin their wheels with self-deluding and living-in-the-instant activities, events, and pseudo-emotions to avoid like the plague any responsibility or reality. They are totally denial-dominated and unreal in all they do. It is also the basis of the addictive and alcoholic systems.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/pecks-bad-boy-personality.php
• The Perennial Child Abnormal Personality
  We are being inundated with a group of charming, conning, conniving cop-out artists who are dedicated to the notion that they won't grow up. These are the 'Perennial Children', the 'Peter Pans' and 'Peter Panellas' of the world. It is a 'transition culture' phenomenon leading us from the authoritarian paranoid patriarchy into the community-committed caring process. We had to go through the 'bend over backwards' opposite of the 'Old World' before we could move on to the 'New World'. And these childish 'have your cake and eat it too' - 'Go for it!' types were the out-route.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/perennial-child-personality.htm
• The Queen of Hearts Abnormal Personality
  They are instantly noticeable, these gorgeous creatures from hell. They are a super-bod or super-stud who is surrounded by admiring and endangered members of the other gender and of their gender who are vulnerable to their wiles. They are a definite 'Look but don't touch!' type of situation, as they are masterful 'Buzz off, Buster!' and 'Who let you in?' seducer-reducers to tears.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/queen-of-hearts-personality.htm
• The Rebellious Child Abnormal Personality
  DON'T FENCE ME IN!!!' That response indicates an intense 'rebellious child' having a major freak-out in reaction to what they experience as an attempt to tie them down like Gulliver in Lilliput. They in no way want to be pinned down on anything, and they react instantly to anything that even hints at control efforts or restrictions of their total 'freedom'.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/rebellious-child-personality.htm
• The Red Riding Hood Abnormal Personality
  At the risk of mixing metaphors, I'd like you to remember 'Sleeping Beauty'. She was in a state of total vulnerability and helplessness while in a completely passive state waiting for 'Prince Charming' to come and rescue her from her deep sleep so she could finally commence her life. She was and felt completely unable to do anything to bring about her own rescue or to make any kind of impact on the environment, and it was her very state of passive helplessness that was expected to bring about her rescue.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/red-riding-hood-personality.htm
• The Smiling Jackie Abnormal Personality
  Do you see that laughing man over there, seeming to be having the time of his life? Do you notice after a bit that something begins to grate about it? It's rather like the recorded laughter for the
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/smiling-jackie-personality.htm
• The Urban Hermit Abnormal Personality
  Give me space and get out of my face!'. That's the motto of a very common creature nowadays - 'Urban Hermit'. They don't want to be bothered or with other people needs and self-manifestations. them, it feels like are being invaded. though some them work hard at coming across as bristling porcupine, reality is in effect 'rejecting first any more pain from other people...
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/urban-hermit-personality.htm
• The Ugly Duckling Abnormal Personality
  You can always spot them — they're the one at the gathering around whom there is a large space. They are a vaguely discomforting or perhaps even a deeply disturbing experience for most people to be around. But the problem isn't "B.O.", it's the "germ that caught penicillin" reaction. For they are people who have a handle on the Truth to a degree that is quite alarming to others. They are the "ahead of their times" guys and gals. These are the "ugly ducklings".
  
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• The Will o' the Wisp Personality
  Do you see that absolutely gorgeous creature over there with half the room surrounding them in awe-struck admiration? That is the local "Will-O'-the-Wisp" (WOW) charming the pants off of everyone while delivering almost nothing. They are the original "dance-away lover", the "Lucy with the football". They are expert "hope-hookers" who specialize in breaking hearts and milking situations, the original "Heartbreak Hotel". They are masterful at generating a "magnificent obsession" towards themselves and they are incredible at the elicitation of longing with their "haunting capabilities". The whole thing is built on a delightful childlike innocence, ingenuousness and charm.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/will-o-the-wisp-personality.htm
• The Yuk-Artist Abnormal Personality
  Meet 'Quasimoto' - the 'Hunchback of Notre Dame', the 'yuk-artist' who is a past master at eliciting an 'E-e-e-i-uck!!!' reaction wherever they go. They are the original 'funny looking kid' and 'weirdo' who has an absolute knack for revolting everyone they encounter. And to make matters worse, they seem to be programmed to do the 'Humpty Dumpty' thing of deflecting all efforts by all the King's horses and all the King's men to put them back together again.
  
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• What in the World is Happening in Relationships?
  This little book addresses the whole issue of relationships at present. At this point in history, relationships have become near impossible to effectively manifest. People are having a very difficult time with all forms of intimate relationship - spousal, parenting, friendship, mentoring, close collegial, and all other forms of vulnerable, invested, committed and significant interpersonal involvements.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/where-art-thou-romeo.htm
• Family Types Introduction
  This chapter examines the family systems that do the scripting of individuals. (Scripting means the development of an set of rules, programs, reactions, mostly unconscious, that manifest themselves as abnormal personalities.) The purpose of this introduction is to give an overview of the characteristics of these systems, to allow for a better comprehension of how scripting works in people's lives. The primary focus here will be on the major family system types.
  
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• All in the Family Introduction
  Why is it that I always feel so responsible for everything? Isn't it strange how things always seem to go wrong where Martha's involved? It's weird how Al always seems to get his way and get away with it, isn't it.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/family-intro-from-all-in-the-family.htm
• All in the Family Epilogue
  There are several points to be made in closing. For one thing, it should be remembered that all of the personality patterns and family systems can vary in severity from the very mild to the severely destructive. It is also important to note that both the family system types and the personality patterns or 'scripts' (family roles, 'bailing stations') can and do combine to produce mixtures in given individuals. Indeed, as was indicated earlier, this is by far and away the norm.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/family-epilogue-from-all-in-the-family.htm
• Parent Their Soul
  It is perhaps one of the most insane and inane facts of our life that in the'modern world', kids come last in our priorities. That effect means we have taken the anti-cosmic and anti-biologic stance tomorrow doesn't matter. It is essentially a suicidal insanity of paranoid patriarchy now dying for reasons just such as this.
  
  http://dbs2000ad.com/narayan/parent-their-soul-1.htm
• Ancient Wisdom About Women; What Men Should Know.
  The spiral represents woman. The arrow represents man. The spiral represents spinning around. The arrow represents focus and stability. A man provides stability to a woman. Sometimes a woman cannot help herself from losing control of her emotions. A man needs to be understanding and not react to what is happening on the surface. Here are some basic rules for a man to memorize and follow:

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